Love is Messy … and that’s not all bad!

But … isn’t it time to clear out what is dragging you down?

 



LOVE Get Ready Review
(c) Viveca A. Stone  2005  GetReadyForLove.com

 

Step 1. Inventory Your Attributes & Attitudes

 

Rating Scale: Rate each item on a scale from 0, to 10, 10 being Excellent! and O being uh oh…)
8-10:
Good: this area of my Love consciousness is strong and an asset to my Love life.
5-7:
OK; this needs work, but not likely to sabotage my efforts.
0-4:
Needs work; this interferes with my Love life.

Married? Use this to review, touch base & ignite with your SO Relationship(s).
Looking? Hunting? Praying?
Use this to get grounded, get ready & get your Love!

 



All glory comes from daring to begin
.  Eugene F. Ware

 

Self-Rating


Ques #1 *
Do U Know what you want?
                                                   ________
I know what I want for my life and for my “Significant                         

Other” relationship. I have it in writing, in vivid detail.

Ques #2 * Are U Aware of your requirements?                                       ________

I know what I require.                                                                                      

Education, ethnicity, religious expression, political, geographical,
special interests, dog lover, children, smoke, drink, eat meat, messy,
neat, funny, artistic, athletic, bi-lingual …
 

 

Ques #3 * Are U Available for Love?                                                       ________         
I Am Available For Love                                                                                  
Do you have time & space for Love? Are you physically available for Love?
Are you financially & legally available for Love? Are you emotionally available?

 

Ques #4 * Are U Skilled at Love?                                                               ________

I have effective Love skills.                  
Love Relationship Skills: Listening, asking, appreciating, Loving without losing
yourself “boundaries,” setting realistic expectations, ability to say no, trust, forgiveness,
humility, accountability, present moment living, respect, allowing, gratitude, problem solving,
stress management, sense of humor, detachment, playful   …

 

Ques #5 * Are U Financially Self-Sufficient?                                           _________

I am financially self-supportive & self sufficient.                                                
I have a clear financial plan and path. I understand the meaning and
application of such terms and concepts as passive income, liability and asset.
I know how to get out of the “rat race.”


Ques #6 *
Do U Love your work/career?                                                 _________

I Love my work/career.                                                                        

My works fills me with contentment, excitement and
self-satisfaction. I am living my dream come true.

Ques #7 * Are U healthy physically, emotionally & spiritually?             _________

I am healthy physically, emotionally & spiritually.                                    

I am capable of giving and receiving Love, tenderness
and pleasure.

Ques #8 * Love & harmony – all in the family?                                       __________
My family relationships are healthy and harmonious.                               

I genuinely enjoy or, if necessary, am peacefully
detached from my family of origin.


Step 2. Identify what’s dragging you down
 

About Your Score


60-80:      Go Baby Go!    You are ready. Enjoy what you have and share it with others. More is on the way!

40-59:      Take Action     You have areas that need attention and you might as well do it now. Take

                                         it slow in the relationship lane – you’ll feel so much lighter, relaxed & more

                                        attractive with just a little bit of effort …
 

0-39:       Time Out!        You are not available. Time out! What’s dragging you down? It’s time to focus on
    clearing it out.
See Step 3.  How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time …

 

 

Step 3. Take Action! Clear It Out!


Look for individual scores below 5. Were you exaggerating - being hard on yourself? Is it really worse but you’re afraid to admit it? Minimizing? Maybe we can help you …

 

 

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