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of Intimate Interviews with The
Masters
Nice Girls Finish Last
in Love
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do they?
hosted by Viveca Stone-Berry
with Jazzy B |
Listen into our
Highlights
then scroll on down
for more...
Who are Nice Girls?
Nice Girls in Love - Oh la la ...
Was it good for me?
Now what?
And now, scroll down the rest of the interview ... Anxious to Please
7 Revolutionary Practices for the Chronically Nice
Segment
1 *
Who is this Nice Girl & how did she get this way?
Sound familiar?
THERE'S AN EPIDEMIC OUT THERE.
The afflicted people seem normal enough.
They may even seem nicer than most—friendly,
sensitive, loyal, eager in their willingness
to please. But ... -Craig English & James Rapson
 Segment 2 *
Nice Girls in Love -- Yikes!
The
goddess,
the prince and the pain.
We don't have
relationships, we takes hostages.
...simultaneously believes 1. A
great love will cure my anxiety and make life worth
living and 2. Sooner or later I will be mistreated,
rejected and abandoned. -Anxious to Please
Segment 3 *
Like Mother -
like Daughter. Now What?
All ages ... all generations.
Tips from the trenches ...
Read the book, Anxious to Please - 7 Revolutionary Practices for the Chronically Nice.
Talk about it with your girlfriends and especially with your significant others.
Talking things out helps you reason things out.
Journal about your "Ah has" -- Notice what you say or do when you are going into
nice girl autopilot. For example one thing I do is I say "I'd Love to!"
and commit myself to doing things I don't want to do!
Notice what do you say, do or feel when you are going into nice
girl autopilot. I feel like I am shrinking (physical); I say "I'd
Love to!" to things I do too much - I do their part of the relationship and mine
(vs. 50/50.)
What about you?
Check out other interviews &
topics & contributions
from
Get Ready for Love! Guests - something in our past will
supply
experience, strength & hope to your present - or theirs.
 About the authors
of
Anxious to Please:
Aside from being "nice guys" who have been there &
done that and understand exactly how we feel and why
we do the things we do ...
James Rapson is a
veteran therapist and teacher whose writing combines
hard-won personal insight with clinical experience
and scholarship. James is the founder of Group of
Dads, which offers classes, workshops and groups for
fathers. James has spent much of his life in front
of audiences as a lecturer, musician, and actor
Craig English is an
award-winning author with extensive experience in
both fiction and nonfiction. For twenty-five years
Mr. English worked as a professional actor on
regional stages. He has done more than 50 television
and radio commercials, and CD ROM game voice-overs.
He has acted in more than 20 productions of
Shakespeare.
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